8 things you can learn about yourself when you’re single

Unavoidably, at some point in life you’re bound to be single whether you like it or not, while some cannot imagine being single and not dating for a period of time. But one thing you must know today is that being single can actually expose you to good things that will help your life both now and in future.

However, most psychologists have studied the secret behind good relationships. They also revealed that for you to love someone, you must have to love yourself as much as you’re going to love another person, and that is going to guide you into respecting another person’s emotional policies.

Undoubtedly, been single is not that easy especially when you’re around people that are couples or maybe when you’re heartbroken, but the truth my dear… You see the city called ROME, it wasn’t built in a day and for it to be perfect, it went through ups and downs ok, so keep calm because i will reveal to you 8 things you can learn about yourself when you’re single.
1. You’ll Learn To Be More Independent

Yeah, let’s talk like as if you’re going to date yourself ok. Who says you can’t still do things you used to do as a couple? You can go to bookstores, take yourself out on a dinner night, travel… Yes!!!
Initially, you may feel awkward not having a partner with you along the line, but that’ll soon pass as you now can stay in the bookstore for hours and not getting bored (your ex used to get bored after 20 minutes or more) or try that new burger place (your ex was a vegan). The more time you spend with yourself alone, the more you’ll like it. Just go ahead and try it, i urge you to do that even if its going to be once in your lifetime, then come back here and tell me what you found out but it hasn’t ended yet, so let’s continue.
2. You’ll definitely meet New People
When you go out someplace alone, whether it’s a coffee shop or a book reading store, you’ll unavoidably meet new people (I don’t mean in a romantic way though — you’re not trying to date for a while, remember? But that doesn’t mean things can’t turn the other way round), so guess what? You’ll already have a common interest with those people you’ll meet new.
3. You’ll Bond With Your Friends Again
You know one thing about being in relationship at times, most relationships you’ll be in will not allow you to mingle with your loved friends especially when they’re opposite se.x, so you let them disappear from your life a while — maybe forever. But now, you can still go back and beg for their forgiveness, you’ll hang out with them as you used to and remember how great they are to you. They’ll not only listen to you cry over your ex, but they’ll do anything to make you laugh and feel lively once again because good friends will always have your back protected. You’ll remind yourself not to go MIA on them in the future when you date again. In fact, next time, you might want to put them in the relationship by introducing each and everyone of them to your partner or spouse.
4. You’ll certainly know what you like and do not like
The possibilities are endless when it’s just you and you alone by yourself and to yourself. You no longer have to watch that one show you never liked but because your ex-partner loved it, you had to pretend that you’re cool with it. Remember then when your ex will take you to a restaurant you never wished to go for your launch hours but because your partner wanted to use the place you will swallow everything and follow up to the restaurant.
5. You’ll Learn New Hobbies
Maybe your ex never liked basketball but you know too well that you love the game, but because your ex liked soccer, you’re bound to go and play soccer with your ex, despite the fact that you hardly enjoy it most times but you’ll not want to show it in order to avoid screwing things in the relationship. Right now my friend, you’re free like a bird, you can as well opt-in for full basketball team practice or you can even turn Pro — The world awaits your enjoyment life.
6. You’ll learn to love yourself the more
It seems like I’ve said something similar to this in number 1 right? Well, i didn’t so let’s forge ahead ok. Meanwhile, now that you’re alone, you’ll be sure to see good things that will motivate you and give self confidence — taking yourself to a fine collectable boutique for some nice clothes and accessories wouldn’t be a bad idea because you’re meant to spend alone to yourself and nobody else, so go ahead and buy good shoes, cloths and any wearable you can think of, as long as they make you look smart and smell nice my dear.
7. You’ll Be Clearer About What You Want In Someone When You Do Date Again
By spending all this time with yourself, you’ll discover what really interests you, and what traits a mate should and should not have. For instance, maybe you’ll finally realize why you and your ex were not a good match because of x, y, and z, so the next time you fall for someone, you’ll be more aware of these things sooner.
8. Finally, you may have a CRUSH or Fall-in-Love again
Yeah… That’s it. If you have followed these guidelines from the beginning till here, then i bet you must’ve gotten yourself a crush, an admirer or someone who will like to have something in common with you, and that may lead to new and well aligned relationship which will eventually turn out to be awesome.